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Why are women attracted to things like fame, money and power?


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I say that women are attracted to men that are famous, rich and powerful for a REASON.



My opinion is that women believe on a genetically and socially programmed, unconscious level that these men are more intelligent, more fun, more interesting, more able to give them the lifestyle - and MOST IMPORTANTLY- give them the FEELINGS that they want.

In his book 'Influence' Robert Cialdini talks about a psychological principle called the 'Halo Effect.' In a nutshell, humans naturally assume that attractive and powerful people are smarter and more trustworthy than average people.

A woman desires a man that fits into her self image fantasies that have been forming since she was very young. And thanks to Disney these fantasies were imbedded even further than her genetic wiring ever intended.

Overall, the answer is to realize that rich, powerful, famous guys have the advantage at the beginning from their FAMILIARITY and ASSUMED, PROJECTED positive traits. But if you can learn to get a woman's attention and then give her the FEELINGS that she's always wanted, she'll treat you like you're famous, rich, and powerful as well.

A tall, handsome man, or a famous rich man 'pushes a button' and triggers certain feelings inside of a woman. If you're not rich, famous, tall and/or super attractive, you have to learn to 'install the button' so that when they see you, then have those feelings. The good news is that you can do this with most women, whereas you cannot with most men.

While women are interested in looks to some degree, they are MORE interested in how you make them feel. Even if you don't understand this, you have to believe it and start acting as though it's true.

You must behave as if you confidently believe that you are the best thing for a woman, and that you are going to make her feel wonderful inside.

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It's more an instinctive thing: in fact even poor, or simple men, or average joes get laid. ;)

The fact is that in their mind women makee a simple equation, an equation embedded in every mind of every sex. "Would my mate be able to grow my children?".

There are lots of factors needed to achieve a solution. A man for example would, in his subconscious, look at an healthy, pretty woman sane and motherly, a woman would look at an healthy, rich, and powerful man, but because her subconscious will reason that a rich man can afford growing up her childrens, a powerful man had work hard to get his position, and he can pass it to his offspring, or teach them how to achieve the same results, same thing for a famous man.

 But since humanity can outgrow his programmation, in the end a woman choose only the man she wants to commit. Eventually she picks the wrong one, an abusive one for example, or she picks a really good one.

 But every man on Earth, and every woman, while thinking at finding his or her own mate to live happily ever after, in a little corner of his/her mind thinks at having a little baby.


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Because they are shallow. 


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

I don't think that ALL women are attracted to men with fame, money and power.  These men for the most part are not easy to live with.  They have very high expectations from women, the want them to be physically perfect.

     Most women ar e attracted to a man who has good morals, who has a decent job, generous, caring, accepting and more down-to-earth.

     Most men who have power fame and money don't have quality time with their family and then a large number of them end up in multiple divorces.  So what is so attractive about these men?

     So many men with money are being chased by all kinds of women and they find them hard to resist and if they are married, they end up cheating on their wives. 

 


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i say they are a gold digger becouse i am a woman and i know some that are like that what u are saying i have a stepmotherinlaw thats been married 3 times and they all were bosses and she just used them to get what she wanted and then got with my fatherinlaw and she wanted something for xm and she did not like it and so she took it back and she wanted a 2008 car and she got it my and everyman that she married was married and she got them to divorce there wifes and marry them and they did and i dont like those knd of woman those woman thank they have to have every thang the way they want it and i dont thank that is right i wish these men would figer them out befor they wast there time on them and she has a boy and she thanks her son comes first then his kids dos and thats not right u need to sept the howl pakege if u want to be with some one like that so my anser to u is that she is a gold diger


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i always try to help those who need good adviceSmileand try to help with other issues

personallity is good the way he talks to you see if you have things in common what you both like to do if you like children some women only care about material others like me care on a personal level. thats why ive been married for 10 years and have 2 great boys


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